This may be a complete shock to you. Perhaps you feel OK about it. Perhaps you feel angry that it's happened. Perhaps you feel desperate to 'do something' about it.
Men often feel at a loss as to how they can help.
When it comes to deciding what to do about the pregnancy a man will often respond when asked by his partner "Whatever you choose I'll support you."
Society has labelled the issues as 'A woman's right to choose' so men can feel as if they have no part in making a decision. Unfortunately the remark above, while meant to help actually can leave the woman feeling as if she has to make the decision alone.
Remember few women want to make any decision about their pregnancy without the support of their partner.
Also remember that whatever you're feeling, your response to the situation will affect your partner.
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What can I do?
Bear in mind that sometime a couple will respond to the situation by pulling apart and it can lead to a great deal of conflict and tension between them which ultimately will help no-one.
It's important not to make a rush decision so ensure you have all of the information you need about your option - parenting, adoption and abortion.
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What are my rights?
